Kevin and Darren live in Portland Oregon and are a gay, committed couple. We believe in life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness for all...regardless of sexual orientation, gender, race, nationality, financial status, and being. Erase man-made borders and "they" become "we". New Site:
We are in the process of cleaning up and rearranging the living area in our basement. We spend most of our time down there and the dogs have a large area where they live/eat/sleep near our entertainment area (TV/VCR/DVD/Stereo).
When I moved in with Darren, I did get rid of a lot of stuff...things I had been packing around for years- i.e., clothing, lots of paper stuff, things I inherited from Rick, etc. The load became much lighter and so did my attitude. I am now looking at all of my books (and I have a bunch). It has crossed my mind to get rid of the lot...but I am getting to a place in my mind where I don't want to give them up...any of them.
After 45 years, I have this regret: That I ever threw away a book, an album, one piece of artwork or other religious/cultural item. When I think of all that I've discarded over the years, I get emotional. Not because any of monetary concerns, but because I've grown old enough to realize that these items are the only possessions I ever really cared about. They contain my spiritual history.
Keep it. Keep it all.